tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post4451083218627410996..comments2023-08-23T21:45:15.703+08:00Comments on Minyak Gaz: Story from the pastWan Sharifhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11152673329947468935noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-81173581091792462042012-02-07T10:17:33.022+08:002012-02-07T10:17:33.022+08:00Salam Aishah,
I shared with the hope that one day ...Salam Aishah,<br />I shared with the hope that one day my children would read all the entries and comments and will want to seek Allah's pleasure maghfirah and Rahmah..<br />May Allah bless our children with His guidance and may we be grouped as " muttaqina imama"<br />i do miss your entries .. May Allah give us enough time and ideas to succeed as a muqarrabin.Wan Sharifhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11152673329947468935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-58201196280799711332012-02-07T10:09:21.285+08:002012-02-07T10:09:21.285+08:00Amin, amin ya Rabbal 'alamin semuga kita disel...Amin, amin ya Rabbal 'alamin semuga kita diselalu di bawah bimbingan Azza Wajalla selalu dalam menguruskan tanggungjawab kita kepada ibubapa kita yang tercinta..Wan Sharifhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11152673329947468935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-63178540356238659372012-02-07T10:05:26.032+08:002012-02-07T10:05:26.032+08:00Thank you for the story and for the story of your ...Thank you for the story and for the story of your father and family. I pray my children will be anak-anak yang beriman dan beramal soleh continuously.Aishahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00064149242908143273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-64338821175933840592012-02-07T10:05:10.880+08:002012-02-07T10:05:10.880+08:00Salam rindunya hati ini..
Terimakasih kerana turut...Salam rindunya hati ini..<br />Terimakasih kerana turut menyumbang pendapat dan pandangan..Semuga Allah membimbing kita kepada Redha Allah dan rasul...Wan Sharifhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11152673329947468935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-68847430162755003472012-02-07T09:41:34.730+08:002012-02-07T09:41:34.730+08:00Slam Puan Huda..
Yes we can still do something for...Slam Puan Huda..<br />Yes we can still do something for parents who are no longer with us..<br />The was an ustaz who said we can give sodaqah, doa (inclusive of solat) etcetera to enlighten the burden of the dead that we need their forgiveness...<br />may Allah guide us to His pleasure, maghfirah and rahmah.Wan Sharifhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11152673329947468935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-43330752288831103212012-02-07T09:32:12.658+08:002012-02-07T09:32:12.658+08:00Salam Puan Rosfida,
Glad to have you back and syu...Salam Puan Rosfida,<br />Glad to have you back and syukur Alhamdulillah On the improving health of your mum.. And to have an understanding Mat Apis ;)<br />Your sharing of your personal experience is very relevant here. I am glad to know that you have been chosen to look after your mum when she was in need..<br /> I was choosen to look after MIL and FIL when they were sick and at the time before theu went to see our Creator.. But did not get the chance to look after my father in his last days..now my sister got the exckusive right to take care of my mum.. She refuses all my advances.. ;(((. I share my other experience in my comment to Ninot above..Wan Sharifhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11152673329947468935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-76148963700387188942012-02-07T09:22:56.304+08:002012-02-07T09:22:56.304+08:00Salam Angelina,
I did not mean to make you drop yo...Salam Angelina,<br />I did not mean to make you drop your precious 'air mata'.. I believe I will cry buckets if I got to accompany you on your tour of many oldfolk homes....<br />On your question... Mmm we raise or take care of our children so that they live.. We take care of parents.. To die.. Said a teacher at my mosque..<br />Remember assyayatin( the devil) has made his promise to ensure humankind will deviate from their main purpose.. A promise made to Allah.. Maybe assyayatin will make bad deed beautiful in the doer's eyes..<br />May Allah guide us to His pleasure, maghfirah and rahmah sokmo sokmo...Wan Sharifhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11152673329947468935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-89961292536901726262012-02-07T09:09:22.470+08:002012-02-07T09:09:22.470+08:00Salam Fathil,
Amin to doa.. No one will shirk the...Salam Fathil,<br /> Amin to doa.. No one will shirk the duty to look after one's parents if one believes in Allah and hereafter and know that part of responsibility.. May Allah guide us to his Pleasure..<br />Thank you so much for sharing you personal experience with me and my blg's readers.. I have shared another part of my experience above ;)Wan Sharifhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11152673329947468935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-58404429387082422322012-02-07T08:41:58.096+08:002012-02-07T08:41:58.096+08:00Salam Ninot,
You sure know how to use beautiful wo...Salam Ninot,<br />You sure know how to use beautiful words.. Hard to believe.. but I am flattered all Gthe same ;)<br />We are lucky to still have our mother with us.. A mother that is interested in helping you and has been your guiding light in all activities.. Heaven-sent..<br />For being so kind a friend, I am going to relate to you my personal experience.. (not sure if I think I should delete this part after you have read it)..<br />When my father was still around I told my siblings.. If you want to kiss or hug your parents and want to ask for their forgiveness... do it while they are alive.. Do not ask me to delay their burial when the time come.. Just so that you can kiss their forehead...<br />So when my father passed away in Jan 2010.. Sure enough my adopted brother who has been with us since he was ~8 months old.. Asked me to delay the burial.. I did not agree.. End up both of us not being in time for the burial.. After all early burial of the dead is one of the three things that a Muslim is asked to do beside to perform solat at the earliest possible time (awal waktu) and to get married as soon as conditions permit.. WALLAHu a'lamWan Sharifhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11152673329947468935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-43726031790610643082012-02-06T19:31:50.892+08:002012-02-06T19:31:50.892+08:00moga kasihsayang & tanggungjawab kita pd ibuba...moga kasihsayang & tanggungjawab kita pd ibubapa kekal abadi hingga ke akhir hayat mereka.. <br /><br />moga mereka (ibubapa kita) sentiasa dilindungi & dirahmati.. mau yg hidup atau yg telah tiada..Mulanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05152239454908848791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-21997227447882658022012-02-06T15:46:44.631+08:002012-02-06T15:46:44.631+08:00Salam semua..
Kepada Oldstock terutamanya: Mengiku...Salam semua..<br />Kepada Oldstock terutamanya: Mengikut syariat, menjaga ibubapa tatkala mereka berkeadaan uzur atau kurang upaya atau seumpamanya, hukumnya adalah wajib atas anak-anak lelaki dan sunat hukumnya atas anak-anak perempuan. Bagi anak-anak lelaki yang tidak menunaikannya, akan terhutang nafkah, bagi yang enggan/mengelak daripada menunaikannya adalah berdosa dan tetap terhutang akan nafkah tersebut.<br /><br />Wallahuaklam.rindunya hati ini...noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-91020524110200915702012-02-06T10:40:28.093+08:002012-02-06T10:40:28.093+08:00salam kenal juga dari saya
tkasih sudi singgah
sin...salam kenal juga dari saya<br />tkasih sudi singgah<br />singgah2 lah layie .. ;)kurushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13103121533923805830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-6749352148787017562012-02-06T10:00:45.999+08:002012-02-06T10:00:45.999+08:00Salam Wan..you make me cry with this entry..thanks...Salam Wan..you make me cry with this entry..thanks for the keinsafan.<br />Even though they're gone, I'll doa more for them from now on..tqq..sedih2! :(mamasitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07918597628257831626noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-78969174550828141632012-02-06T00:44:39.742+08:002012-02-06T00:44:39.742+08:00A very moving story..
Which reminds me of my trip ...A very moving story..<br />Which reminds me of my trip back home just last month. I went back to Malaysia and left my husband alone in Ruwais so I could take care of my mother who had a heart attack. I am lucky I did just that...even luckier that I have a husband who is supportive and understanding. <br /><br />It may not have any relevance to your story, but I am lucky my mother is still alive and I had the opportunity to take care of her be it for a mere 26 days.R.A.Shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04320969691391327434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-18999488484650925162012-02-05T10:04:11.628+08:002012-02-05T10:04:11.628+08:00Ayoh Wang ni bakpe buat entry sedih ni....both my ...Ayoh Wang ni bakpe buat entry sedih ni....both my pawrents have lost theirs so that's why we spend time at old folks home. Sedih tau tengok the uncles and aunties abandoned by their own children. Kenapa seotang ibu boleh jaga sembilan orang anak dari kecik sampai besar tapi sembilan orang itu belum tentu dapat menjaga seorang ibu di hari tuanya? Kita tak suka manusia macam tu. purrrr.....meow!Cat-from-Sydneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04316678270023647758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-34414843916871394092012-02-04T17:21:30.253+08:002012-02-04T17:21:30.253+08:00Salam Ayoh Wang,
Very moving story indeed. Perhap...Salam Ayoh Wang,<br /><br />Very moving story indeed. Perhaps if I can share a similar story, part of which I have written about in my blog. My father-in-law is a bedridden old man. When my mum-in-law passed away, the immediate issue that cropped up was who to take care of the old man. A meeting of the siblings was held and some interim solutions were proposed. This included putting up the old man temporarily in a nursing home until a maid can be found. The final solution being considered was for the old man to be taken care of by each of his sons and daughters on a rotation basis. I didn't agree with this idea, but being just an in-law, I kept my mouth shut. I could not imagine having the old man being transport in and out of his children's home every month. In the end, two of his daughters took up the task. The sons are happy to give excuses...<br /><br />I pray to Allah that I do not shirk my responsibility when it comes to my own parents and that my sons would not run away from theirs.Fadhilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14091828414987087822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-321604907742517601.post-44906978040712392922012-02-04T11:21:03.079+08:002012-02-04T11:21:03.079+08:00Now this is a story (a very real story) of One Tho...Now this is a story (a very real story) of One Thousand and One Arabian Nights proportion. It broke my heart, a reminder that I am very lucky my Mum is still with me and a constant guide, and very meticulous editor too to my work!, in all I do.ninotazizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06491437553562159354noreply@blogger.com